Friday, July 20, 2012

SANCTE PATER: Priests are victims too, Vatican told

SANCTE PATER: Priests are victims too, Vatican told:



INTENSIVE RESEARCH:  Father James Valladares, at St. Paul of the Cross Church.  Picture by Matt Turner.

By Tom Bowden

(The Advertiser)  An Adelaide priest has urged the Vatican to dramatically improve the way it handles sexual abuse claims, saying current procedures mean innocent priests are being victimized.

Father James Valladares, who describe himself as a "survivors' advocate of sexual abuse," spent three months in the U.S. in his research into false accusations against the priesthood.

While he acknowledged there were many legitmiate victims of sexual abuse by the priesthood, there was an equal number of claims made by those seeking financial gain, he said.  

In this book, Hope Springs Eternal in the Priestly Breast,  Father Valladares examines the problem of false allegations and urges the church to adopt a set procedure that would protect accuser and accused until an investigation was complete.  He found about half the accusations against priests were false, mostly because accusers were seeking money.

"False allegations do occur and such allegations are devastating to the accused," he said.

"Having said that, I do not wish to denigrate any of the harm that has been done - for that we are all very sincerely sorry. Our whole purpose now is to create a climate of trust and openness, transparency and acountability."

Father Valladares said the pendulum had swung too far from the church protecting an accused priest to the church immediately acting on behalf of an accuser since 2002 when a huge cover-up of sexual offenses became publc.  "I conducted this study to show that society is effectively tarring all priests with the same brush, using the allegations against a select few to discredit others," he said.

He said a priest falsely acused of sexual abuse or molestation was ruined for life.  "During my research, I found there are 1000 priests in America who are in limbo," he said.

"They have been acccused, there is no substantive evidence, they have not been charged, but they have been removed from minstry with no hope of being reinstated.

"These poor individuals have no financial income, they have nowhere to live, they have to rely on the hospitality and charity of relatives and friends.  It is a grave inustice.'

Father Valladares said a set procedure must be put in place so that the accused and accuser had their say and a proper investigation was conducted.

Confidentiality was essential as once accusations went public it was the "beginning of the end,"  he said.

"Procedure has to be faithfully followed to ensure justice to both the accuser and the accused.  Just examine the case rationally and objectively and honestly."

He said cases must be heard immediaely, with both sides having a say and a decision made.  Whatever was said must be put down in writing, so nothing was left open to misinterpretation.  Those found guilty must face grave consequences, including facing the law, but those found innocent would escape the blackening of their name.

Thursday, July 12, 2012

We are Fools for Christ (1 Cor. 4:10)

Onward Christian Soldiers ...

no one is closing their parish or transferring these pastors ;-)

  

CALL TO ACTION target practice ;-)

 NO CLOWN LITURGIES ALLOWED. VIOLATORS WILL BE SHOT

DISSIDENTS: NO TRESPASSING  

EVANGELIZATION alla Perry County

PennLive : Bishops don't intend to limit religious freedom

PennLive : Bishops don't intend to limit religious freedom

While I have nothing but the utmost esteem for Rabbi Carl Choper, I regretfully but respectfully disagree with his July 3 op-ed, “Religious liberty means liberty for all involved.” Both of us cherish the treasure of religious liberty. Where we part paths is in his assessment that Catholic bishops are seeking to restrict the religious freedom of those whom they employ.

It would be hypocritical for the church to demand that government respect her freedom if she denied it to her employees. Yet that is not the case.

The church is not asking workers to violate their conscience. Employees are legally free to do whatever the law allows on their time and in their homes. But it’s unjust to demand that employers provide or pay for things that are discretionary, especially if they are morally objectionable. Anyone, regardless of religion, has access to contraceptives in every pharmacy, grocery  and convenience store. Even Planned Parenthood offers it. So why should religious employers be forced to provide it for employees?

Imagine if the government compelled bosses to buy workers cigarettes or pornography, which are just as legal and optional as birth control. The bishops are not coercing employees; they are merely refusing to be coerced by the government.

THE REV. FR. JOHN TRIGILIO, JR. PH.D.,
Pastor
Our Lady of Good Counsel, Marysville
and Saint Bernadette, Duncannon

With all due respect to Rabbi Choper, it is not fair to portray the Catholic Church, especially the Bishops, as being only 50% in favor of Religious Freedom. They are not coercing anyone to violate their conscience. Their employees can believe and act as they so choose. The only point is why should the Church pay for what it has moral objection? A judge in Germany, recently ruled that ritual circumcision is a crime, violating “the fundamental right of the child to bodily integrity,” which overrules even parental rights. “This change runs counter to the interests of the child, who can decide his religious affiliation himself later in life.” Here is the slippery slope when government tells us religions what to do or not do. Making Catholic employers provide contraceptives is no different from prohibiting Jewish parents from having their sons circumcised.

Rev. Fr. Kenneth Brighenti, PhD
Vice Rector, Mt St Mary Seminary

Sadly, Rabbi Choper is on the wrong side of this issue. After the ruling in Germany to outlaw ritual circumcision, an obvious violation of religious liberty, the good Rabbi Choper has been spending an inordinate amount of time scraping the egg off his face. Rabbi Choper, please read this article about that offensive ruling in Germany, and please pay close attention to the Chief Rabbi's final sentence. Notice that, like the Catholic Bishops, the Chief Rabbi agrees that such intrusions by a government are violations I religious liberty: 

 http://www.chiefrabbi.org/2012/07/06/the-jerusalem-post-the-europeans-skewed-view-of-circumcision

Deacon Thomas Lang

Friday, July 06, 2012

Priest Comments on SCOTUS Decision



    I am truly grateful to live in a country where the first freedom guaranteed in our Constitution is thefreedom of religion. I am also grateful that our Declaration of Independence explicitly states in writing that our inalienable rights come from God (our Creator) and the first and foremost is theright to life. The democratic-republic we live in is supposed to govern with truth and justice via the rule of law. Law is an ordinance of reason promulgated by legitimate authority, i.e., one who has care of the community, and which promotes and serves the common good. (Lex est rationis romulgate ad bonum commune ab eo qui curam communitatis habet romulgate)

    Unfortunately, I do not have full confidence in our current system of jurisprudence. Yes, we have many fine judges and attorneys who are committed to truth and justice. But the system is being abused by those who have another agenda. My younger brother was killed by an underage drunk driver on July 5, 1997. The medical blood test which unequivocally established that the accused was very much over the legal limit even if he had been of drinking age (which he was not), was suppressed by a judge on a minuscule legal technicality. My brother was killed just three blocks from home and the person who ran into him served no time in jail and paid no fine whatsoever. Even his driving license was not suspended or revoked. Ironically, if you drive away from a gas station without paying for the fuel, the law will suspend your license. Get too many parking tickets, and you can have your license revoked. Kill a human being with your automobile while under the influence or driving while intoxicated, however, and nothing happens. I find that obscene.

    Likewise, I find the recent SCOTUS (Supreme Court of the United States) ruling on Affordable Care Act equally obscene. A legal technicality has once again spit in the eye of justice. Semantics have replaced duty. Every judge is supposed to seek truth and justice in every trial. On the one hand, we are told that the act is not constitutional under the commerce clause, but it is a lawful levying of a tax and thus is constitutional. The mandate of Health and Human Services implements this law and violates our first constitutional freedom, the freedom of religion. It does this by obligating Catholic schools and hospitals and businesses to provide or subsidize medical procedures that are intrinsically opposed to the natural moral law andde facto violate the religious conscience of the believers of that creed. Dioceses and parishes are 'exempt' by legal fiat, not because it is wrong to impose such measures. Catholic hospitals, nursing homes, colleges and universities and businesses (like Eternal Word Television Network) will be compelled to provide or subsidize abortions, sterilizations, euthanasia and contraception to anyone who works for them.

    Imagine if the government told a hospital it had to provide cigarettes to any employee who smoked, or pay fines and taxes that allow the smoker to get free cigarettes. Yet that is what will happen when Catholic hospitals are told they must provide 'reproductive health care' to any and all employees.

    Contraceptives often work as abortifacients, which do not prevent conception, but rather prevent implantation of an already fertilized egg. Once fertilization of the egg occurs, however, there is conception and there is a new and distinct human being in the womb, whether it is attached to the uterine wall or in the fallopian tube. Human DNA is present and once conception takes place, that DNA is distinct and separate from all the rest of the mother's body, which has her unique DNA. The unborn baby has similar DNA, but it is not identical, for he or she is a new human being at this moment.

    What bothers me most is that important issues like religious freedom and health care are erroneously portrayed as in opposition to one another. Caring for the sick is corporal work of mercy. Respecting the conscience and the religious beliefs of others is equally sacred. Since abortion and contraception are currently legal in our country, those who have no qualm of conscience can obtain these without fear of being arrested. At the same time, however, they are not inalienable rights. No one can demand them. They can obtain them but no one is obligated to provide them if either violates their conscience. If as a restaurant owner I freely choose not to serve alcohol, I am under no moral or legal obligation to secure a liquor license, nor am I obliged to serve alcohol. If someone wants it, they can get it themselves at the local liquor store or go to a different restaurant that serves booze.

    Under ACA, HHS will force hospitals, schools, insurance companies, and other businesses to provide or subsidize contraceptives, abortion and euthanasia to anyone they employ. Why not force these institutions to provide or subsidize cigarettes free of charge to their workers? Yet, what do we see? Hospitals and other public places forbidding smoking not only inside but even outside the building because cigarette smoking causes cancer. Abortion and abortifacient contraceptives and euthanasia are also lethal and deadly to innocent human beings. How can the government force anyone to provide something dangerous if they choose not to do so?

    Whether President Obama reforms his current law or Governor Romney repeals it and replaces it with a different piece of legislation, all citizens must be concerned and get involved. Socialized medicine is not an inalienable right, but the right to life is, and so is religious freedom. One danger in placing too much confidence in the court system is that individual judges can let you down. Having a pro-life president and Congress can ensure the possibility of a pro-life judge getting on the Supreme Court, but there is no guarantee. Today, to appease the judicial committee, presidents often nominate safe judges who have little or no paper trail. Their previous decisions are vague or non-existent on the issue of the right to life of the unborn. Hence, to pass the Senate, we get people who have not expressed much, if anything, on this important matter.

    A hundred and fifty years ago, the pertinent question was: What is your position on slavery? Fifty years ago it was racial segregation. People had a right to know if judges believed in civil rights. Being vague is not good enough. Today, the crucial question is about the inalienable right to life. Does it exist? When?

    We must elect pro-life politicians to the House, Senate and presidency, but also we need to demand from those nominated to the Supreme Court that they will defend and promote justice for all citizens, those inside and outside the womb. Human beings have rights from their Creator. The executive, legislative and judicial branches have no authority to grant, rescind, deny or create any human rights whatsoever. Their job is to defend and protect the rights all human beings have from their human nature.

    Justice was not served, nor was truth upheld. Legal technicality is a stratagem used to obfuscate justice, not pursue it. What makes the recent Supreme Court decision even more enigmatic is what Kim Daniels of Catholic Voices USA writes:

      Championed by HHS Secretary Kathleen Sebelius, that mandate requires most employers to provide free coverage for contraceptives, abortion-causing drugs, and sterilizations even when doing so violates their deeply-held religious beliefs. Often called the 'HHS mandate,' this regulation was not before the court this time around, and the court's ruling did not affect it at all. It remains in force and under challenge; some 56 plaintiffs have filed suit against it in 23 separate cases across the country.

      In her separate opinion — joined by Justice Sotomayor, Justice Breyer, and Justice Kagan — Justice Ginsburg notes that beyond the provisions directly at issue in the healthcare case, other constitutional provisions limit the power of the federal government: 'A mandate to purchase a particular product would be unconstitutional if, for example, the edict impermissibly abridged the freedom of speech, interfered with the free exercise of religion, or infringed on a liberty interest protected by the Due Process Clause.'
    Note that last sentence. Justice Ginsburg and her three fellow justices deem any mandate which violates a person's conscience or religious freedom is unconstitutional. Justice Roberts can call it a tax and President Obama can call it a penalty, but in the mandate is the unconscionable violation of our basic and first constitutional freedom. Freedom of religion and the integrity of the individual conscience cannot be sacrificed just to make a political policy expedient. Whether Congress utilizes the commerce clause or its taxing authority, what is really at stake is the soul of America.

    The right to life and religious freedom are not in any way, shape or form equal or subservient to people's access to elective treatment and procedures. Persons have access to contraceptives at any pharmacy, and, sadly, even to abortion procedures at Planned Parenthood facilities. But under no circumstances should taxpayers, schools, hospitals, insurance companies and businesses be coerced or compelled to provide or subsidize them. Fining or taxing those who fail to provide these non-essential and controversial measures is repugnant to reason and justice.

    This law must be repealed and redone from scratch. We need to overhaul the medical care system as a matter of social justice, but national health care is not the panacea. Justice demands we respect religious freedom and individual conscience while first and foremost respecting and defending the right to life of all human beings. Creating unreasonable debt for the nation, families and individuals, whether this generation or those to follow, is no solution, either. Weakening national defense or violating human rights is just as insane and unjust. Neglecting the sick and dying is no option, but remember: The ends never justifies the means.

    Let's elect politicians and install judges who truly seek truth and justice for all men and women, born and unborn. All three branches of government need to put the common good first and politics last. Law is to be a tool for man to use to protect him, not enslave or endanger him. Laws that deny human rights, like the right to life and religious freedom, are not valid laws and should be replaced by ones that are.
    Father John Trigilio, Jr.
http://www.renewamerica.com/columns/abbott/120705 



Thursday, July 05, 2012


This is a memorial brick at the Harrisburg DUI Memorial for Victims of Drunk Drivers. My kid-brother Joe was killed on JULY 5th, 1997, by an underage drunk driver. Six months later, my dad died of leukemia but I suspect more of a broken heart, having buried his second son and third child. Joe was just two years younger than me. We shared bunk beds growing up. His funeral had 80 cars in the funeral procession to the cemetery. He was liked by everyone who knew him and they liked him from the moment they met him. His nickname among friends was "Crow", something to do with the cartoon characters Heckle and Jeckle. Joseph (Joey, as my Polish grandmother called him) was a good man who never hurt anyone but tried to make people laugh or at least feel at ease. He did not see others as threats or adversaries or even competitors. He treated others like colleagues and treated his friends like family. To his family, he is lovingly missed, as is our younger brother Michael who died five years before from Muscular Dystrophy at the age of 26.  Today is a difficult day for my mom, so I ask your prayers for her.

I urge EVERYONE to do whatever you can to prevent more innocent deaths through DUI and DWI. Do not let your family or friends drive drunk. If you do, it is a SIN OF OMISSION in my book and a mortal one at that. Material cooperation in evil includes NEGLIGENCE. Taking someone's keys, driving them home or calling them a cab is a small price when you consider they may kill a loved one from somebody else's family.

Proper Wedding Garment


loooovely, just loooovely


now that's what I call ceremonia 

Friday, June 29, 2012

AXIOS

My friend and seminary classmate, Archbishop William Skurla (I should say, His Eminence), just received the Pallium today from Pope Benedict XVI along with Archbishop William Lori (Baltimore), Archbishop Samuel Aquila (Denver) and my own Metropolitan, Archbishop Charles Chaput (Philadelphia)






Thursday, June 28, 2012

Vatican declares Archbishop Fulton Sheen to be Venerable

Vatican declares Archbishop Fulton Sheen to be Venerable | CatholicHerald.co.uk

Uncle Fulty one step closer to becoming Saint Fulton Sheen.  
A role model for all bishops, priests and deacons.  
orthodox and reverent at all times.



Ego te benedico EWTN


who says real men can't wear gloves?


love those Pontiff 12's 


Suscipe (and ad orientem, too!)

Wednesday, June 27, 2012

Father Pavone


Priests for Life

6/26/2012
     
We are happy to announce that the Vatican has upheld Father Frank Pavone's appeal and has declared that Father Pavone is not now nor has ever been suspended. Father Pavone remains a priest in good standing all over the world.

We were confident all along that a just decision would be made by the Vatican's Congregation for the Clergy. While we fully agree that Bishop Zurek has rightful authority over the priests of his diocese, we also see the urgent need for Father Pavone to be allowed to conduct his priestly ministry outside the diocese of Amarillo for the good of the pro-life movement. 


by Bishop Patrick J. Zurek
June 20, 2012



In its decree of May 18, 2012, the Congregation for the Clergy has sustained Father Frank A. Pavone’s appeal of his suspension from ministry outside the Diocese of Amarillo and his appointment from me on October 4, 2011 as Chaplain of the Disciples of the Lord Jesus Christ in Channing, Texas.  Father Pavone is to continue his ministry as chaplain until further notice. As a gesture of good will, I will grant permission to him in individual cases, based upon their merits, to participate in pro-life events with the provision that he and I must be in agreement beforehand as to his role and function.

All other matters are outside the purview of this statement.

Amarillo, Texas, June 20, 2012

+Most Rev. Patrick J. Zurek, STL, DD
Bishop of Amarillo


I express my personal and professional gratitude that Father Frank Pavone is not suspended from his priestly faculties.  He is a faithful and loyal son of the Church and I am confident he will continue to respect, honor and obey his diocesan bishop. The work he does as National Director of Priests for Life serves the common good of all the dioceses and parishes and faithful in the United States. It makes sense that he inform his bishop of his activities inside and outside the diocese, which every priest should do. If every bishop kept vigilant on everyone (clergy, lay and religious) who speak in their diocese AS LONG AS the criteria is fair and universal. Specifically, the litmus test must be orthodoxy. If what they SAY and WRITE conforms with the Magisterium (namely, the Catechism, Ecumenical Councils and Papal Encyclicals), then they should be allowed to speak on any church property. 


Dissidents who preach or teach personal opinions which contradict official doctrine and dogma of the Catholic Church should be barred from every Catholic church, school and seminary. When it is a matter of PRUDENTIAL JUDGMENT or private opinion on something not already defined, then DE GUSTIBUS NON DISPUTANDUM EST. Like an imprimatur which does not mean the local bishop agrees with all the opinions of the author, he does verify that what is in this particular book does not conflict with defined faith and morals.  Bishops may not always share the same perspective or they may have a different prudential judgment but as long as the speaker does not say or write anything that contradicts official Magisterial teachings, they should be permitted to speak. 


I am confident that anything Father Pavone says and writes does conform and therefore keeping open communications with his bishop is sensible and proper. As long as all speakers and public persons are treated equally, i.e., they are scrutinized with the same criteria (the measure you measure with ...) then there is justice and fairness. If only certain people are singled out to be examined for their orthodoxy credentials, that would be unfair and improper. God bless Father Pavone and Bishop Zurek and all priests, deacons and bishops so we can be better sons of the Church. As ordained clergy, we should be working together and on the same side, that of TRUTH and GRACE. Preaching and teaching orthodox doctrine and celebrating valid, licit and reverent divine worship is what the People of God deserve and nothing less.

Tuesday, June 26, 2012

Kresta In The Afternoon: Vatican faces 'urgent' need for priests with new v...

Kresta In The Afternoon: Vatican faces 'urgent' need for priests with new v...: VATICAN CITY ( CNS ) — In an effort to respond to a "clear and pressing" need for priests, the Vatican released a set of guidelines for new vocations ...

HERE IS SOMETHING INTERESTING:

"Some reasons men say "no" to or ignore a call to the priesthood, it said, include:


-- having parents who are reluctant about their son's choice because they have different hopes for their child's future;


-- living in a society that marginalizes priests and considers them irrelevant;


-- misunderstanding the gift of celibacy;


-- being disillusioned by the scandal of priests who abused minors;


-- and seeing priests who are too overwhelmed by their pastoral duties to the detriment of their spiritual life."





Priests who find satisfaction and fulfillment in their vocation are the best advertisement.  Sadly, many good priests and deacons slowly but surely become discouraged and disenchanted, not with their vocation but with the often prolific and oppressive diocesan politics and bureaucracy which can make clerics feel like employees more than as disciples.  The corporate business paradigm must GO once and for all. We clergy NEED a familial model where clergy are treated as BROTHERS not as employees and bishops act like FATHERS and not as corporate executives. Then pastors can be shepherds rather than branch managers. 

Monsignor Escriva


Happy Feast of Saint Josemaria Escriva
founder of Opus Dei

O God, through the mediation of Mary our Mother, you granted your priest St. Josemaría countless graces, choosing him as a most faithful instrument to found Opus Dei, a way of sanctification in daily work and in the fulfillment of the Christian's ordinary duties. Grant that I too may learn to turn all the circumstances and events of my life into occasions of loving You and serving the Church, the Pope and all souls with joy and simplicity, lighting up the pathways of this earth with faith and love. Deign to grant me, through the intercession of St. Josemaría, the favor of ... (make your request). Amen.

Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory be to the Father.


Collect:


O God,
who raised up your priest Saint Josemaría in the Church
to proclaim the universal call to holiness and the apostolate, grant that by his intercession and example
we may, through our daily work,
be formed in the likeness of Jesus your Son
and serve the work of redemption with burning love. Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son,
who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. 

Sunday, June 24, 2012

Beloved Pastor Blessed by Gift from Parish

A very good friend of mine and fellow member of the Confraternity of Catholic Clergy just told me some remarkable news. His parishioners chipped in and spontaneously of their own initiative collected funds so that their pastor could travel to Rome for his 35th anniversary of ordination to priesthood. He was flabbergasted by the gesture and expression of affection and appreciation for his many years of service to his people. Often, it is easy to focus and remember the few harsh words a few disgruntled parishioners may utter in moments of weakness or highly stressed situations. Sadly, the many kind words and actions of a majority of people can be temporarily forgotten or ignored since our pride likes to zero in on the negative rather than build on the positive. Envy is also the chief temptation among clergy. Favors, honors and esteem of the bishop when given to others are rarely viewed with joy for a brother.

Nevertheless, when you see something like this, which has nothing to do with ecclesiastical politics, it is indeed heart warming to say the least. I am genuinely happy for my friend just as I was with another priest friend who was recently made a Monsignor, a Knight of Malta and Vicar General in his respective diocese. It is refreshing and encouraging to see worthy people being recognized and rewarded for their love and loyalty to Holy Mother Church rather than seeing cronies being repaid for their collaboration and unconditional support of local regimes and administrations.

Sharing in the joy of someone legitimately honored is wonderful. Hope to experience more of it, soon.




Thursday, June 21, 2012

Hi Ho, Hi Ho, It's Off to Protest We Go



thanks to Fr. Z at WDTPRS, I found this diddy. 

That’s What Priests Do! A Priestly Tribute | Courageous Priest

That’s What Priests Do! A Priestly Tribute | Courageous Priest

Even the Lone Ranger Had Tonto

Sherlock Holmes had Doctor Watson, Batman had Robin, the Green Hornet had Kato, and the Lone Ranger had Tonto.  Boyhood heroes were certainly fictional but the idea of not going it alone was and still remains a powerful idea. Even Captain Kirk acknowledged he needed Mr. Spock. Unfortunately, many good people today feel as though they must or need to do it by themselves. We Americans pride ourselves for rugged individualism yet history will not let us forget Lewis and Clark.

What I am beating around the bush is that there is an immanent danger of good and well intentioned people of faith falling into the trap of 'solo or no go'. While it is true that a very few have been authentically called by the Lord to embrace the life of a hermit or anchorite, most men and women, be they clergy or laity, married or single, or consecrated religious, need some connection and interaction with community. Our Divine Lord Himself had companions and friends, from James and John to Martha and Mary. Judas, however, seemed conspicuously solitary. While one of the Twelve Apostles, he appears a loner (as well as thief).  He does not consult with anyone before he betrays Christ for thirty pieces of silver.

Other than the instances where a priest has been defrocked, suspended and laicized for sexual misconduct and other heinous crimes, there are some ordained clergy who leave or go off the deep end for more benign reasons. Over the past 24 years of priesthood and being the president of a national association of priests and deacons, I have known many good men who sadly have left their post and are either on leave of absence or are considered AWOL by their bishops or superiors. Don't get me wrong, vows and promises of obedience are very important and are as sacred as wedding vows between a husband and wife. That is why it is difficult for me to personally identify with classmates and friends who have left active priesthood since it is no different than a spouse calling it quits on his marriage. Commitment is supposed to be permanent.

Nevertheless, I can empathize to a degree with my brothers who feel discouraged, disillusioned and demoralized due to bureaucrats, politicians and sycophants in Roman Collars who abuse their office for self-serving needs and personal agendas. When a priest feels more like a business manager than a pastor or when the diocese operates like a corporation and the parish is told to run like a branch office, it can tarnish some of the zeal that led the man to the altar in the first place.

The last canon in the Code of Canon Law #1752 concludes with "the salvation of souls is the supreme law of the Church" (SALUS ANIMARUM EST SUPREMA LEX). That is why I got ordained. Saving souls by hearing confessions, anointing the sick, teaching/preaching/defending the faith, celebrating the sacraments and offering the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass; these are the primary raison d'être for the priesthood. Yet, when the corporate paradigm is used and imposed upon your pastoral work, many priests can get discouraged. Responsible stewardship is important but balancing the checkbook has to secondary to saving souls. Fundraising pays the bills but celebrating reverent worship and preaching orthodox doctrine is what people need and deserve FIRST and FOREMOST.

Worse yet is the nepotism and cronyism often infecting ecclesiastical life. Incompetence is frequently tolerated and political maneuvering encouraged. The usual suspects are always on the Personnel Board, Presbyteral Council, et al. Even good and orthodox bishops are often surrounded by middle management bureaucrats reminiscent of the old Soviet Union. These men buffer what the bishop knows and how his policies are implemented. They filter information coming in and going out. Local loyalty is more cherished and rewarded than loyalty to Rome. Hence, when priests see cronies being made knights or monsignors it can be disappointing but honors and recognition are not why we became men of the cloth. What truly hurts is persecution, isolation, ostracization, ridicule, banishment and disrespect coming from your colleagues and even your boss. When the enemies of the Church attack us, we feel honored to share in a form of dry martyrdom for the sake of Christ. When it comes from your own kind, from your own brethren, it not only stings, it wounds deeply. Play the game and succeed is not only the modus operandi for many businesses, it is the strategy of some ecclesiastics as well.

That results in one of two results. The first is the surrender to discouragement and that inevitably leads to destructiveness.  Priests can become bitter, angry, melancholic, strange, weird, or worse. Dangerous and addictive behavior can manifest itself via prescription drug abuse, alcohol abuse, addictive gambling or shopping, and finally sex (from pornography on down).  Parishioners wonder why the crotchety old cleric ever became a priest if he did not like people. Little do they know that he did have a love for the faithful but something or someone soured that and he never realized it. Sometimes people see their priest practicing his craft as if only a job. He does what he must, no more and no less.

The second option is better. If a priest maintains not only a solid, healthy and daily prayer life but ALSO cultivates sacerdotal fraternity, i.e., has some good priest friends to support and encourage him, then he does not have to turn to the dark side. He can and will remain a loyal son of the Church and still be a beloved man of the cloth. NO, NOT POPULARITY. Popular priests often tell people what they want to hear rather than what they need and ought to hear. BELOVED priests are not showered with presents and invitations to parties but they are respected and endeared long after they are gone (either by transfer or death). Beloved priests are remembered in the heart. Popular priests are courted and wooed. My childhood pastor was not popular but he was beloved. His decisions were not always popular but the fruit of his labor were vocations to priesthood, diaconate and religious life. His work did not merit the accolades of the bishop nor warrant promotion in the diocese, but many, many souls were saved. Many good marriages and many good God-fearing Christian lives came from that parish.

We priests need the prayers and support of our people but we also need the prayers and support from our brother priests. Priests and deacons and bishops share in Holy Orders and there is an Order of Deacons, an Order of Priests and an Order of Bishops, hence the plural use Holy ORDERS. Fraternity among the Order is essential. Bishops get together once or twice a year as a nation and regionally from time to time. Priests and deacons need to do the same.  Our Confraternity of Catholic Clergy allows priests and deacons from around the country to get together for an annual conference. Prayer, study and fraternity. We also promote monthly chapter meetings which are essentially an afternoon of recollection (theological discussion and/or spiritual conference, prayer before the Blessed Sacrament, opportunity for confession, and a friendly informal meal shared together). We even have a five year international gathering in Rome where priests and deacons from the USA, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, and Great Britain and Ireland meet for a few days in the Eternal City.

Having a few, from one or two to a half dozen of more, good priest friends are crucial for priestly life. Jesus sent His disciples out, not alone, but two by two. He chose Twelve Apostles to be the foundation of His Church. That is why the spiritual, emotional and psychological health of priests depends on having some good friends. QUALITY matters more the QUANTITY.  Popular people have lots of acquaintances but you can usually count on one hand your real, good friends.

There will always be temptations in every vocation and because priests influence so many people and can potentially save many souls, Satan goes out of his way to discourage, disappoint and demoralize Christ's ordained ministers. The Devil wants us to envy each other. He wants us to be resentful rather than grateful. Daily prayer and annual retreat are necessary and obligatory. But very helpful is cultivating priestly FRATERNITY.  The priests who have left, who have gone off the deep end, who have become recluses or eccentrics are the ones who have no good priest friends. When priests stay to themselves we can become idiosyncratic to say the least. Being odd is not good.

Let it be said that every priest and deacon needs some private time to himself. Some time for inner reflection and just to unwind and relax. Catching an occasional movie, playing a round of golf or a game of bowling, going to a concert or play, having a day off, are all wonderful safety valves. When a priest spends all of his free time alone, though, it can be dangerous.  He needs someone to encourage but also someone who can, when needed, give fraternal correction. He needs another voice and opinion to help give him balance. A brother priest knows the struggles and challenges. A lay friend is good to have and several are even better but a priest NEEDS some, one or more, GOOD and SOLID priest friends. Not someone who will commiserate and entice even more complaining and disdain, but someone who can provide healthy PERSPECTIVE and at times needed distraction.

I am blessed to have a few good priest friends. First and foremost is my classmate and best friend, Father Ken Brighenti. We have been ordained 24 years and have been friends since we met in the seminary in 1983. With the untimely deaths of my two younger brothers and having no nieces or nephews as to date, I depend and rely on this friendship more than ever. He has helped me before and after ordination, during difficult assignments and in handling disappointments. He has helped me keep perspective and maintain balance. That is what friends are supposed to do.  I have other friends, not as close but still important nonetheless. My priest friends from the CCC like Msgr. Sal Pilato, Fr. Marcos Gonzalez, Fr. Vince Rigdon, my diocesan buddy and friend Fr. Dennis Dalessandro and of course my mentor and spiritual director Father Bob Levis; these and many other priests help me want to and help me strive to become a better priest. Lay friends like Thomas McKenna and Michael Drake, Drs. Tina and Keith Burkhart, Dr. Liz Burkhart, Lou Falconieri, et al. are close to my heart as well. Deacon friends like Tom Lang, Joe Wrabel, Jim Rush, Joe Gorini and Russ Swim are big helps, too.

I exhort all my brother priests to spend some QUALITY time with other priests. Get and maintain at least one or two VERY GOOD priest friends. Try to socialize and pray with brother priests and deacons once a month and make a serious effort to attend a priest conference or workshop besides the mandatory one your diocese imposes.  We can become our own worst enemies if we allow the Devil to sow the seeds of discouragement and discontent. We can conquer that by cultivating FRATERNAL SUPPORT for each other.

Dear Laity, encourage your pastor, your parochial vicar, the newly ordained and the jubilarians to make time for themselves. Workaholic priests are as in much danger as lazy couch potato ones. Keeping balance as did Our Lord, Who prayed, worked and relaxed. Scripture shows us Jesus in the desert and at the home of Martha and Mary; He ate at Zacchias' house and with His disciples; He worked miracles, preached sermons, cast out demons, healed the sick and took time to take a nap. He also had some close FRIENDS.

Newly ordained priests and us middle agers need the benefit of the wisdom of our senior priests. The old bucks have experience, stories and a sense of humor in that they do not take themselves too seriously nor do they lack the proper seriousness and decorum when needed. New priests can be tempted right out of seminary to let loose and shoot from the hips. I've been there, done that.  Prudence is not selling out. Discretion is the better part of valor. Yet, we need the freshness and zeal of youth and the excitement of possibility. Middle age can get you in a rut just from routine.

Within the last few years, two dear friends died, Father Anthony Dandry and Father Michael Scott.  We all were in seminary together along with Father Brighenti. They died well before anyone expected. Both served God, the Church and their people to the best of their abilities. Both were superb priests and we have some fond and funny memories of both of them. Several years ago, a very young friend, Father James Pilsner died tragically and I often think of him. His short life and priesthood was still a blessing for the people he served. I am grateful for our friendship, brief as it was. Then I see some of my diocesan brethren get together with classmates and friends from seminary going back more than half  a century or more. Those guys have remained priests and they are beloved by their people.

Priests who serve in the parish, in hospitals or prisons, teach in schools, work in seminaries or work in the chancery affect many lives and influence many souls. Whatever ministry any priest does, he must do it well and do it diligently. He may not get much affirmation or appreciation in this life, but what matters is what the Good Lord thinks. Having good priest friends and making time for personal prayer, study and priestly fraternity are not OPTIONS or even RECOMMENDATIONS, they are ESSENTIALS to every priest who has ever been ordained.

If you see or know of a priest who appears to be getting more and more solitary, PRAY for him and if you are a priest, VISIT or at least COMMUNICATE with him from time to time. Encourage him to spend time with other priests and deacons on a regular basis. Mention the Confraternity of Catholic Clergy and WorldPriest.com and other orthodox associations. The dissident groups get plenty of publicity but they feed on themselves. Those groups loyal to Rome may not be as exotic but believe me you will never regret getting involved with them.

Saturday, June 16, 2012

Happy Father's Day



St. Joseph, guardian of Jesus and chaste husband of the Virgin Mary, you passed your life in loving fulfillment of duty. You were the head of the holy family of Nazareth and supported them with the work of your hands. Kindly protect all men blessed to be fathers. You know their aspirations, their hardships, their hopes. They look to you because they know you will understand and protect them. You too knew trial, labor and weariness. But amid the worries of material life your soul was full of deep peace and sang out in true joy through intimacy with God's Son entrusted to you and with Blessed Mary, his beloved Mother. Assure those you protect that they do not labor alone. Teach them to find Jesus near them and to watch over him faithfully as you have done. May they be the husbands and fathers they should be as you were yourself. Help them to love, respect and care for their wives and their children. Pray for those fathers who have died that their souls may be rewarded for their goodness. Help those fathers who have strayed, abandoned, or abused their families so they may repent and better serve their loved ones. Bless all our dads with a happy death so that they may leave this world to join Jesus, Mary and you, Good Saint Joseph, in heaven. AMEN



Wednesday, June 06, 2012

Catholic Church op-ed is filled with falsehoods | PennLive.com


Dr.Drane wrote an offensive and illogical editorial. As a bio-ethicist, he should restrict his pontificating to areas of medicine and its moral application. Instead, he attacks the Roman Catholic Church with ad hominem and non sequitur false arguments.

Pejorative slanders like calling the bishops ‘theologically unsophisticated’ and naïve do not prove his premise. He implies that the Catholic hierarchy is sexist and discriminates against women.  That would only be true if Holy Orders were a right every baptized human being enjoyed. On the contrary, clergy (deacons, priests and bishops) are ordained men by divine institution. Jesus Christ established ordained ministry as a gift and not as an entitlement. No Catholic male can even demand the call to Holy Orders.  There must be discernment and affirmation by the Bishop who is a successor of the Apostles. It is infallible teaching that Holy Orders is reserved to baptized males only as Pope John Paul the Great taught in Ordinatio Sacerdotalis.

The Pope and Bishops alone have teaching authority, called the Magisterium. It is not extended to theologians or bioethicists. Furthermore, faith and morals are not subservient to public opinion or contemporary culture. Hence, the Church’s doctrines on marriage being reserved to one man and one woman; on the sinfulness of abortion, euthanasia and contraception; etc., are not open for debate as they are based on the truth of the immutable Natural Moral Law. Fidelity and loyalty are neither conservative nor liberal, they are just right.






PAPAL MESSAGE FOR THE DIAMOND JUBILEE OF ELIZABETH II

Vatican City, 6 June 2012 (VIS) - Made public today was a message sent by the Holy Father to Queen Elizabeth II of the United Kingdom who is currently celebrating her Diamond Jubilee (sixty years since she became monarch). The English-language text bears the date of 23 May.
"I write to offer my warmest congratulations to Your Majesty on the happy occasion of the Diamond Jubilee of your reign. During the past sixty years you have offered to your subjects and to the whole world an inspiring example of dedication to duty and a commitment to maintaining the principles of freedom, justice and democracy, in keeping with a noble vision of the role of a Christian monarch.

"I retain warm memories of the gracious welcome accorded to me by Your Majesty at Holyroodhouse in Edinburgh at the beginning of my apostolic visit to the United Kingdom in September 2010, and I renew my thanks for the hospitality that I received throughout those four days. Your personal commitment to cooperation and mutual respect between the followers of different religious traditions has contributed in no small measure to improving ecumenical and inter-religious relations throughout your realms.

"Commending Your Majesty and all the royal family to the protection of Almighty God, I renew my heartfelt good wishes on this joyful occasion and I assure you of my prayers for your continuing health and prosperity".

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Monday, May 21, 2012

40 Hours


 

please pray for my two parishes (Our Lady of Good Counsel & St. Bernadette) 
as we celebrate our annual Forty Hours Eucharistic Adoration.
Our preacher this year is Father Brian Wayne from St. Joan of Arc, Hershey

Sunday, May 13, 2012

24th Anniversary of Priesthood

William Cardinal Keeler ordained me and my four classmates to the holy priesthood twenty-four years ago today.  Each year since then I have renewed my consecration of my priesthood to the Immaculate Heart of Mary, Queen of the Clergy and Mother of Priests.

ACT OF ENTRUSTMENT AND CONSECRATION OF PRIESTS TO THE IMMACULATE HEART OF MARY

PRAYER OF HIS HOLINESS BENEDICT XVI

Church of the Most Holy Trinity - Fátima,  Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Immaculate Mother, in this place of grace, called together by the love of your Son Jesus the Eternal High Priest, we, sons in the Son and his priests, consecrate ourselves to your maternal Heart, in order to carry out faithfully the Father’s Will.

We are mindful that, without Jesus, we can do nothing good and that only through him, with him and in him, will we be instruments of salvation for the world.

Bride of the Holy Spirit, obtain for us the inestimable gift of transformation in Christ. Through the same power of the Spirit that overshadowed you, making you the Mother of the Saviour, help us to bring Christ your Son to birth in ourselves too. May the Church be thus renewed by priests who are holy, priests transfigured by the grace of him who makes all things new.

Mother of Mercy, it was your Son Jesus who called us to become like him: light of the world and salt of the earth (cf. Mt 5:13-14).

Help us, through your powerful intercession, never to fall short of this sublime vocation, nor to give way to our selfishness, to the allurements of the world and to the wiles of the Evil One.

Preserve us with your purity, guard us with your humility and enfold us with your maternal love that is reflected in so many souls consecrated to you, who have become for us
true spiritual mothers.

Mother of the Church, we priests want to be pastors who do not feed themselves but rather give themselves to God for their brethren, finding their happiness in this. Not only with words, but with our lives, we want to repeat humbly, day after day, Our “here I am”.

Guided by you, we want to be Apostles of Divine Mercy, glad to celebrate every day the Holy Sacrifice of the Altar and to offer to those who request it the sacrament of Reconciliation.

Advocate and Mediatrix of grace, you who are fully immersed in the one universal mediation of Christ, invoke upon us, from God, a heart completely renewed that loves God with all its strength and serves mankind as you did.

Repeat to the Lord your efficacious word: “They have no wine” (Jn 2:3), so that the Father and the Son will send upon us a new outpouring of the Holy Spirit. Full of wonder and gratitude at your continuing presence in our midst, in the name of all priests I too want to cry out: “Why is this granted me, that the mother of my Lord should come to me?” (Lk 1:43).

Our Mother for all time, do not tire of “visiting us”, consoling us, sustaining us. Come to our aid and deliver us from every danger that threatens us. With this act of entrustment and consecration, we wish to welcome you more deeply, more radically, for ever and totally into our human and priestly lives.

Let your presence cause new blooms to burst forth in the desert of our loneliness, let it cause the sun to shine on our darkness, let it restore calm after the tempest, so that all mankind shall see the salvation of the Lord, who has the name and the face of Jesus, who is reflected in our hearts, for ever united to yours! Amen!


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Parish Priest's Prayer to Mary Most Holy

O Mary, Mother of Jesus Christ, crucified and risen,
Mother of the Church, a priestly people (1 Pet 2,9),
Mother of priests, ministers of your Son:
accept the humble offering of myself,
so that in my pastoral mission
the infinite mercy of Eternal High Priest
may be proclaimed:
O "Mother of Mercy".

You who shared the "priestly obedience" (Heb 10, 5-7; Lk 1, 38),
of your Son,
and who prepared for him a worthy receptacle
by the anointing of the Holy Spirit,
keep my priestly life in the ineffable mystery
of your divine maternity,
"Holy Mother of God".

Grant me strength in the dark hours of this life,
support me in the exertions of my ministry
entrust me to Jesus,
so that, in communion with you,
I may fulfil the ministry with fidelity and love,
O Mother of the Eternal Priest
"Queen of Apostles and Help of Priests".

Make me faithful to the flock
entrusted to me by the Good Shepherd,
You silently accompanied Jesus
on his mission to proclaim
the Gospel to the poor.

May I always guide it
with patience, sweetness
firmness and love,
caring for the sick,
the weak, the poor and sinners,
O "Mother, Help of the Christian People".

I consecrate and entrust myself to you , Mary,
who shared in the work of redemption
at the Cross of your Son,
you who "are inseparably linked to the work of salvation".

Grant that in the exercise of my ministry
I may always be aware of the "stupendous and penetrating dimension of your maternal presence"
in every moment of my life,
in prayer, and action,
in joy and sorrow, in weariness and in rest,
O "Mother of Trust".

Grant, Holy Mother, than in the celebration of the Mass,
source and centre of the priestly ministry,
that I may live my closeness to Jesus
in your maternal closeness to Him,
so that as "we celebrate the Holy Mass you will be present with us"
and introduce us to the redemptive mystery of your divine Son's offering
"O Mediatrix of all grace flowing from this sacrifice to the Church and to all the faithful"
O "Mother of Our Saviour".

O Mary: I earnestly desire to place my person
and my desire for holiness
under your maternal protection and inspiration
so that you may bring me to that "conformation with Christ, Head and Shepherd"
which is necessary for the ministry of every parish priest.

Make me aware
that "you are always close to priests"
in your mission of servant
of the One Mediator, Jesus Christ:
O "Mother of Priests"
"Benefactress and Mediatrix"
of all graces.

Amen.

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